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发信人: windywindy (windywindy), 信区: Parenting
标  题: 读书记
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 22 10:13:13 2006)

书一直是蜻蜓的最爱。最早的记忆可以追溯到两三个月大时,蜻蜓和妈妈一起躺在床上
看书,妈妈用很夸张的声音和表情,加上肢体动作,演绎故事。蜻蜓被逗得哈哈大笑,
常常一看就是半小时。

到十个月左右时,书已是她的favorite了。小小的手指居然可以耐心地一页页地翻书了
。那时看的都是一些board book, 撕不烂的,随她折腾,不久一本书就看得滚瓜烂熟。
十一个月时,在她面前一字排开七、八本书,让她找书中的内容,都是又快又准确。甚
至大人会混淆的,她都分得清清楚楚。记得有两本书Baby Talk 和Baby Faces (by
Margaret Miller), 封面是差不多的。但她从来知道什么在哪一本里。客人来了一表演
,惊为天人,做父母的不是不得意的。

有一段时间朋友给了些”婴儿世界”, 她很喜欢. 四本薄薄的小书被她看得体无完肤.
里面无论是故事,儿歌,还是游戏, 都被她复习了无数遍. 我也很喜欢其中的故事, 而且
发现有些颇有现实中的教育意义. 比如每次蜻蜓不肯自己睡觉时, 我会给她讲”宝宝长
大了”的故事. 她听了多半时候都会愿意做个”长大了的宝宝”,而不是”小娃娃”.
另外一个”咔嚓嚓的叔叔”的故事,让她不害怕剪头发. 这套书她看了很久, 从只是听,
到能够自己讲故事.

两岁前看的书比较random, 通常是家里的一些存货(很多还是生她之前乱买的). 她有些
喜欢有些不喜欢, 比较记忆深刻的有以下几本:
1. Smart Kids Animals (by Roger Priddy)
一岁半前看的, 画很漂亮. 蜻蜓学会模仿不同动物的叫声.
2. My First Picture Dictionary (by Colin Clark)
也是一岁半前的最爱. 每页上有不同的objects, 连带简单的解释. 蜻蜓通过书认识很
多的物体. 有时我也会把一页上的pictures串起来, 编个小故事. 她听得津津有味的.
3. The Happy Lion (by Louise Fatio)
狮子,老虎, 熊etc.是蜻蜓的最爱…
4. ”白雪公主”(少年儿童出版社)
每页提个头, 她基本能自己讲下来. 这个故事我主要教她两点: 1. 蜻蜓是个幸福宝宝,
因为她有爱她的爸爸妈妈. 白雪公主不是, 她有个可怕的后妈. 2. 不能吃陌生人给的
东西. 问蜻蜓:”白雪公主吃了苹果怎么样了?”她会绘声绘色地告诉你:”啪! 晕倒了!

5. A very hungry caterpillar
这本书让蜻蜓的食欲好了很多, 因为她看到毛毛虫吃成胖胖宝宝后变成了漂亮的蝴蝶.
她常常在念叨: 爸爸喜欢胖胖宝宝, 妈妈喜欢胖胖宝宝…


有时间我会带她到图书馆去看书. 记得读过有个小天才怎样看书:把图书半架子半架子
地搬回来看,颇让我向往过一下. 开始我会帮蜻蜓挑一挑, 但很快她自己就要拿主意了.
她会随手抽出书, 翻一翻, “这本不好看”, 又换一本. 有些书讲完后看她喜欢就借
回来. 通常她在图书馆流连忘返, 不拉她回来自己是不肯走的.

各种亲子网上常有些妈妈会推荐一些书, 通常是中文的, 会存下来一并采购. 但是发现
国内的书并不是太合适, 有些言语太时髦, 情节暴力. 有一天突然灵机一动, 上网钩了
儿童classics的书单. 然后又发现图书馆有个服务特方便, “request an item”. 从
此就根据书单索骥, 图书馆找到书后会发Email通知, 一般会替客户保留三星期左右.
我通常一气request七八本, 看到书找得差不多了去图书馆pick up就行了. Classics的
书果然不同凡响, 很多都让她爱不释手.

通常我会每一次讲故事都加点发挥, 一则有点新意更吸引她, 二则可以随时联系实际教
育她. 故事也是讲得由简到繁. 第一遍时是故事的大概, 慢慢加上各种细节. 一个故事
生出无限变化, 对自己也是一种挑战和乐趣. 不过最近发现她自己不肯讲故事了, 不知
是不是我讲得太好听了J 要想一想办法了…

蜻蜓还有一个缺点是不太爱护书. 再三告诫她图书馆的书要看得小心些, 结果是我常常
在那边补书. So far还在头痛中…


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发信人: windywindy (windywindy), 信区: Parenting
标  题: Re: 读书记
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 22 11:07:47 2006)

妈妈们, 不用受刺激吧,我是觉得每个孩子都是gifted in some way, what we shall
do is to find it and appreciate it.

其实我们家的教育一直是以孩子兴趣为主,家长引导为附.蜻蜓学什么都很快,但对于会
了的东西兴趣消失得也很快(比如认字啊,数数啊,背唐诗啊etc.), 过一段时间后也就忘
得差不多了.我们也就随他,不会逼她更上一层楼 (教的时候也是for fun). 我注重的是
她的学习能力, 而不是她会了多少. 我觉得性格的培养比知识的培养要重要的多,也难
的多.我希望蜻蜓是个快乐宝宝,远比天才宝宝更重要.


晋晋妈: classics书单:
Author: Frank Asch
Title: Good Night, Baby Bear
Des cription: As winter approaches, Mother Bear helps her cub get
comfy before he falls asleep.

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Author: Frank Asch
Title: Just Like Daddy
Des cription: Little Bear is just like his daddy until it comes to
fishing, where he is just like his mommy.

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Author: Byron Barton
Title: The Little Red Hen
Des cription: The little red hen can't get her lazy friends to help her.

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Author: Marc Tolon Brown
Title: Hand Rhymes
Des cription: Fourteen fun hand rhymes to practice with your children.

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Author: Margaret Wise Brown
Title: Big Red Barn
Des cription: Spend a day with the animals in the big red barn.

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Author: Margaret Wise Brown
Title: Two Little Trains
Des cription: Two little trains, one streamlined, the other
old-fashioned, puff and chug their way west.

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Author: Nancy Carlstrom
Title: Jesse Bear, What Will You Wear?
Des cription: Rhyme with Jesse as he goes through his day.

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Author: Lorinda Cauley
Title: Clap Your Hands
Des cription: This rhyme invites readers to clap, jump, spin, wriggle,
pat, and stretch in a variety of ways.

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Author: Eileen Christelow
Title: Five Little Monkeys Jumping on the Bed
Des cription: Naughty little monkeys jump on the bed, only to fall off
one by one and bump their heads.

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Author: Trish Cooke
Title: So Much
Des cription: A baby in a large extended family knows that he is
utterly adored.

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Author: Lois Ehlert
Title: Red Leaf, Yellow Leaf
Des cription: A young child tells about his favorite maple tree and
all of the changes the tree goes through.

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Author: Katie Evans
Title: Hunky Dory Found It
Des cription: Hunky Dory carries off all sorts of things, including a
sock, a ball, a book, and a toy boat.


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Author: Don Freeman
Title: Corduroy
Des cription: Corduroy, a stuffed bear, has been waiting hopefully in
a toy store for someone to take him home.

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Author: Deborah Guarino
Title: Is Your Mama a Llama?
Des cription: Lloyd asks his animal friends if their mama is a llama
like his. His friends tell Lloyd about their mamas.

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Author: Shirley Hughes
Title: The Nursery Collection
Des cription: A collection of five tales for toddlers,including
"Bathwater's Hot," "Colours," "All Shapes and Sizes," and "Noisy."

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Author: John Langstaff
Title: Over in the Meadow
Des cription: A counting song where mother and baby animals work
together to accomplish their activities.

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Author: Leo Lionni
Title: Swimmy
Des cription: Swimmy, a lone survivor of a school of fish, devises a
plan to camouflage himself and his new companions.

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Author: Mercer Mayer
Title: What Do You Do With a Kangaroo?
Des cription: A little girl must decide how to handle a variety of
animals who tell her what to do.

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Author: Sam McBratney
Title: Guess How Much I Love You
Des cription: Little Nutbrown Hare wants to show Big Nutbrown Hare how
very much he loves him.

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Author: Laura Krauss Melmed
Title: I Love You As Much
Des cription: Mothers tell their babies how much they love them.

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Author: Joan Nodset
Title: Who Took the Farmer's Hat?
Des cription: No one has seen the farmer's nice brown hat, not even
Bird. But Bird now has a nice brown nest.

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Author: Michael Rosen
Title: We're Going on a Bear Hunt
Des cription: Three children and their dad have an adventurous day in
this classic children's book.

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Author: Maurice Sendak
Title: Chicken Soup With Rice: A Book of Months
Des cription: A small boy describes the activities that accompany
chicken soup with rice in each month of the year.

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Author: Dr. Seuss
Title: The Eye Book
Des cription: Hurray for eyes! A boy and a rabbit use their eyes to
discover the world around them.

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Author: Esphyr Slobodkina
Title: Caps For Sale
Des cription: As the peddler is taking a nap, all of his caps are
stolen by a band of mischievous monkeys.

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Author: Nancy Tafuri
Title: Have You Seen My Duckling?
Des cription: A mother duck leads her brood around the pond as she
searches for one missing duckling.

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Author: Martin Waddell
Title: Can't You Sleep, Little Bear?
Des cription: Little Bear is afraid of the dark. Big Bear gives him
the moon and stars to light up the night.

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